You know that dream job you want, that place you wanted to visit, the lifestyle you talk about wanting, that thing you always want to do? It probably isn’t going to happen. But not because it is impossible, but because you are too weak/scared/normal and spend all your time making excuses.
If you want to find reasons that you can’t do x, you will find them. The difference between the doer’s and the excuse makers is that the doer’s take the first step. They take an action towards whatever it is they want to accomplish instead of looking around for reasons not to.
Decide what you want, and go get it. Make a plan, take an action, get started right now. No seriously, right now.